1. Why do women get so jealous and paranoid?
By nature men are naturally NOT monogamous. In this modern day some have learned to
control it most have not. Their sex
drive is much higher than most women’s and sex fro a man is more often than not
a more physical thing than an emotional experience, however for a woman the
opposite is true. Take this statistical
information, for example?
Which relations ships last longer? Women/men woman/woman man/man. The results were the most lasting
relationships were those between lesbians Following that, heterosexual relation
ships, the most fleeting of the three being between two males. This does not
mean there are not exceptions to the rule; however the facts are the facts.
2. Whats the big deal with chocolate and cakes.
Cakes deserts, big meals are forms of celebration many were raised only having theses items at celebrations therefore they have become a comfort food. The act of eating them brings back the feeling of those special moments. Women being nurtures by nature want to make you feel good.
3. Does size matter.
Absolutely size matters. I think men and women are made to fit together physically, emotionally and spiritually. There is a size to fit everyone, I just happen to need them a bit bigger :)
4. What is a woman’s ideal evening?
I do not know what they typical woman’s ideal evening is but
if you are referring to the romantic sense, a good dinner movie and sex all of the above at home!
5. Why do women always think they are right, when even
provable to be wrong?
Women are catty and will hold to their beliefs even if they
themselves know they are wrong. I think
it also has to do with the fact that most women prefer security to change. With change there is a risk and risk and security
are not synonymous.
6. What do women consider to be a mans best trait.
I think strength is the best character. With strength comes everything else. Honesty, emotional security, etc.
7. Are all women bisexual? Or is it just the fact that if an
attraction is there then gender doesn’t matter, or is it just a mans fantasy.
I think many women are bi-sexual however I also think women
unlike men are secure in their own sexuality, whatever that maybe. We can look
at other women and say she is hot, pretty, cute and are not afraid someone
might think we are "gay"
8. What would be the most impressive thing a man could do?
The most impressive men to me are the ones who after fifty
years of marriage are still in love with their wife.
9. Are all women jealous of this mans world and things men
do.
No, only the bra burners.
They want a dick too. I am happy
to be an inlet :)
10. What do women hate the most about men?
Wimpy whiney insecure men.
11. What turns women on the most?
I think I will get flack for this answer but I think assholes
turn women on. We are talking here about sexual attraction not what women look
for to marry. If anyone remembers high
school they all went for the asshole even if he was ner'do well. When women cheat it is usually with an
asshole. It is just the way it is.
12. Do flowers really matter that much.
Not necessarily flowers, anyone can send flowers but a well
thought out show of appreciation or sweet nothing.
13. Do cars and material things matter that much or is love
more important.
If all the basic needs are provided for I think love comes
and stays easily but if those needs are not met I think love becomes a rocky
road.
14 if a better man than your partner came along would you go
for it.
No, once you have made a commitment it is yours to keep.
Hurting and humiliating someone like that is a sin. That is one of my
definitions of evil.
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thanks for taking part your cool. [THUMBUP][THUMBUP][THUMBUP]
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I LOVE THE ANSWER... [LOL] "I am happy to be an inlet"[LOL][LOL][LOL][LOL] me too![THUMBUP][THUMBUP][THUMBUP]
On that note I also think that the only reason to reject a partner is maltreatment or incompatability. It should never be because of another person. That is just cruel. If you are in tune to the signs of a malfunctioning relationship you can sense that there will be trouble ahead because your needs are not being met. If you notice that you are feeling attracted to someone, you can always talk to your partner about it and work it out before the shit hits the fan, in my opinion. And if you do not feel you can, then there is a major problem in your communication together, and that is a sign that maybe you're not right for each other.
I think your answers are very insightful. It is true that most women love assholes, sad as it is to say. Nice, boring guys often finish last. I know I am guilty myself. I have dated my share of assholes, no doubt, and I don't regret it for a moment really... [WINK][COOL][LOL] although I am happy to be in a more stable situation now. I think this can be avoided if you look for the qualities manifest in both the assholes and the great men of the world: leadership, charisma, and balls (sorry, I can't think of a more politically correct way to put that combination of boldness, indomitable spirit, a spark of creativity, and slight outrageousness). [LOL]
I think it is OK to be a woman and have penis envy, as long as you are honest about it. I have pretty much gotten over mine though, but it took years... I've been a man in way too many past lives to easily slink into the vulnerabilities of womanhood without a fight. However I love having that dual understanding, and am very comfortable now with my gender. [COOL]
One thing I think is worth mentioning is that women have started to respect men less in this century because we are having to pick up after them all the time, figuratively. Women are by nature more adaptable than men, because often men went to war or hunting and left women behind to do everything. Often they died as well which forced women to wear many hats. So when the feminist movement started crying for women to take on male roles, the men were more than happy to have even fewer responsibilities.
Instead of teaching men to help us more, we have taught them to help us less, taught us that we do not need their help. As a result they are lazier and we are more bitchy and fried. Birth control and readily available abortion has done this as well to some extent; removed some of the gravity of social responsibility for sexual intercourse with a woman.
We need to build up the pride of men in their natural job: providing for the material needs of their family, and working to make society a better place. If women don't start doing that, they will all end up being assholes, as well as whiny and wimpy and resentful. A man who is appreciated and validated but also ALLOWED to do his job without interference or nose-wiping, will be a much better man in the long run, than one who whines for help and constantly receives it. [COOL][HEART]
although I have met drag queens that were more man than many of the so-called men I know [LOL] so that's no insult to the girlyboys who have the BALLS to express their true colors!
I think sometimes that it would be nice to have a "sister-wife" to commiserate with, share childcare when one of us is under the weather, go to the store or market with, and of course, gang up on our husband when he is being unfair. Two or more women, if they stick together, are a force to be reckoned with! [LOL]
I personally think I function better in a nonmonogamous relationship, especially if I am
If you look to the Bible or any other scripture for guidance, you will find more sanctioning of polygamous than monogamous marriage, actually, with some rare exceptions. Nowhere in the Bible, to my knowledge, is polygamous marriage expressly prohibited, and many of the great matriarchs and partriarchs were part of polygamous family units. In fact the unique, specific trials and benefits of these marriages was clearly detailed in many Bible stories.
In the past there were practical reasons to practice polygamy, but now that the world is overpopulated, homosexuality is actually a more "practical" choice in many ways (if you want to rely solely on that as the guiding factor of what lifestyle to choose).
I think that the main problems with polygamy were that the woman had no right to choose her co-wives. She ABSOLUTELY must have veto power over and the right to choose who lives and works alongside her in the home. Also I don't think co-marriage will ever work between people of vastly different age groups. In my experience I have seen that this is the main cause for competition and discord in the family. Finally, I think that if a second wife is taken just because the first can't have children, the first wife MUST be treated equally and perhaps even better in some ways, because she will be suffering from jealousy anyway.
Many cultures, such as India and Tibet for example, practiced polyandry (having multiple husbands). Even in Vedic times there were some examples (when there was a shortage of women) when women practiced polyandry. Now that sounds like fun... [TONGUE][THUMBUP]
I would rather just be friends with lots of people though, than practice actual non-monogamy. It's too stressful and complicated. With monogamy at least I only have to deal with one person's annoying habits! [HUH]