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Often time’s people find it odd that I work as a phone sex
operator and I have found that when discussing moral, religious, political or
any matter that requires a bit of brain power many want to discount my
intelligence based on my profession. When they run out of ammunition for their
argument or I prove them wrong I always get some lame ass version of “well you're
just a dumb whore”.
It seems to be assumed that anyone in the Adult industry
must be stupid. They must have been forced into it or do not have the aptitude
to work a “real job”.
This is a very real job and it is a lot of hard work. I
use every bit of my education and then some when performing, right down to
Biblical studies. It is a myth to think I sit back and moan for the men who
call me and all that is required is a sexy voice. If that were the case anyone
could do it and there would not be such a high turnover when ladies realize this
is not a get rich quick scheme. It is hard work with years worth of material to
learn.
The callers come from every age range and every social back
ground you can think of and you have to be able to relate to all of them. They
do not call just to hear me moan, we converse as well. If you cannot hold an
interesting conversation you may as well just hang that phone up. I have talked
about every thing from monster trucks to politics and the stock market. This
part of my job is the fun part. The part I work for during the time I am not on
the phone.
I have to work my tail off just to be able to meet the
gentlemen. That requires advertising, web design, coding, creative writing,
sending mail, photography, networking; you cannot imagine how much goes into
getting that phone to ring just once.
There are women who make more than you could imagine doing
this, why? Because they are doing something they love and working their asses
off.
Back to the question: why do I do this or rather how did I
come to be a phone sex operator.
Well I went to Kent State because I wanted to teach. I
though I could make a difference in the world and teach prisoners basic skills
and perhaps get them past the G.E.D at the very least. I took psychology
because I felt it would be helpful in working with the prisoners and Biblical
studies just because I was fascinated by it.
While this sounds good on paper, or on blogster, it is
actually a very flawed Idea due to the fact I have some serious character
flaws. Many would see these” flaws” as assets but in some situations they could
be very bad. First, I am submissive, second, I can look right past the bad in a
fellow human and see the good shine through and third, I believe every one
should get along and that deep down everyone really wants too. Put that
together with working with prisoners and it could be a very bad situation. I
could get killed or bring an axe murderer home to mom and Dad.
I did not see this at first. It took much convincing from
my best friend and fellow submissive as well as some harsh words form mom to put
me on the right path.
See some would the think well if you chose to go in the
adult industry well then why not go into something more hands on. Porn actress
or an escort. I refer you back to the above reasons for not teaching in
prison. I would have been the girl who was ripped off and knocked around or
worse because I have the street smarts of road kill and I like to be knocked
around. Again bad combo.
Which brings me to leaving Ohio and my beloved Kent State
to live in Georgia.
When I came here I had no car. Well, see, I did have a car
but it took me 3 days and 2000.00 bucks to get me and my dog here, Keep in mind
it is a twelve hour drive. I spent a great deal of money fixing this car on the
way. Breaking down and having to walk through places that were reminiscent of
deliverance and by the time I got to my mothers I was so pissed off at my car I
sold it for junk out of pure unadulterated anger.
I was carless and jobless and living with mom. I
immediately got a job I could walk to so that I could get another car and get
the hell out of my mother’s house, that was easy, but then I had my hormones to
think about.
I needed sex but after having my heart broken in Ohio I
decided I was going to be a lesbian. It seemed like a good Idea at the time
unfortunately women were missing a vital organ I need to have a relationship.
Whoops tangent. So to meet people I saw commercial for one
of those tele-personals dating services on the phone where it is always free for
women. I called with every intention of meeting a woman, unfortunately for the
softer sex, that was not to be because in the category “casual encounters” was a
sub category on the “darker side” for BDSM.
At this point I had been practicing BDSM but had no idea
that other people were into it. Until hearing that category and listening to
all of the ads I had no idea I was not a freak and there was a whole community
for folks into exactly the same “weirdness” I was into! I was home.
I met my very best friend there as well as my first master
(for technical reasons she was my first mistress as well as a bi-sexual lover
for a short time)
My first Dom was not monogamous and let me play on the tele-personals
system with other guys and other men and I was dating a lot, learning more about
BDSM but more importantly I was having a lot of phone sex. It was my first Dom
who said, ”you aught to stop giving that away for free” Which after thinking of
all the guys who tried to hit on me when I was telemarketing during college and
the late nights up getting freaky on the phone I decided to take his advice and
here I am.
I went from working for a company to working for myself and
am very proud of my success.
I guess the best way to sum it up is I belong to a
community similar to blogster or any other for that matter. This community
consists of PSO’s world wide. I have never met as many college educated people
in one community. MOST women in my biz have educations beyond high school. I
would say at the very least 7out of ten. They are the most talented group I
have every known. They may be PSO’s but they are also nurses, lawyers, school
teachers, accountants, graphic designers, writers, bankers, photographers and
those are just a few of the back grounds I know for sure have changed to a
career of debauchery J
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All the best,
Phil.
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If taking the Bible literally is so important it needs to be done as a whole not just on what neo-Christianity chooses. The whole face of Christianity would be changed.
Not to mention that much of the bible cannot be applied to modern times. You can try all you like to say if this is what this meant then this is what it means now but it doesn't. You have to consider the social / political climate of the ancient times and see why something was said then see if it applies.
I think the best way to be a good Christian is to lead a life that causes no one else pain and you have done right by God.
Ok...you have put way too much on here for me to even try to answer but I guess your answer left me wondering how you feel about a few things..... What about Jesus? Was he just a good man? Is he the Son of God? Did he die and rise from the dead? Does a person have to believe Jesus died for their sin in order to have everlasting life? Those issues are made quite clear in the Bible. So those are things that were made up or changed? How can you tell because I haven't figured out how to tell which parts are true and which are not. You know, which parts are from God and which ones are man made.
Thanks again for the "belated" answer.[SMILE][SMILE]
Anyway, I do believe in Jesus but on the same note I do not think other religions are false. I believe God is bigger than what people limit him too. Do you have to believe in Jesus to have everlasting life? Well I believe in Jesus and believe he was sent to earth for all the reasons you do but do I think a (non radical) Muslim, Jew or Hindi will burn in the fiery pits of hell? No.
When looking at the Bible I would hazard to say those things are true. Less of my problems are with the New Testament but with the old and where they come together on some issues.
I do not believe homosexuals are going to burn in hell or sex workers like me. I believe all of the statements concerning sex and homosexuality are fueled by the times. The politics and general atmosphere of the time it was written is reflected in that and do not believe it was Gods mandate but Mans. While those fears and prejudices might have worked then when sexually transmitted disease killed and procreation was a must they do not work now and I do not believe they were meant to. Not to mention once knowing the exact reason why also shows that.
I think I answered plus some.
I do not mind answering them
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To me a job is a job and you shouldn't have to defend anything you do -
As for me, I wouldn't mind your job but I would probably start laughing as soon as I started.... I don't know if I could stay serious the entire conversation... [BLUSH] [HEART]
Where do you see yourself in seven years, Holly?[HUH]
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